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 16:49 | 4/Feb/2008 | 4 Comment(s)
causes of break -up in love

 

Every young couple who is in love with each other want to do marriage(exceptions are There),but due to some reasons break-up between two happens.I found some of the causes of break up around me.Which are:

(1)The couple may be intercaste and of diff.religion.

(2) There may be over age gap between the both

(3) Parents disagree/fear of scoiety and parents.

(4) One of them may found some other gud proposal.

(5) Either girl or boy may be after money,means if either of them got spouse with more wealth hi/ her mind get changed.

(6)More career orientation.

(7)lack of career settlement

(8)Misunderstandings

(9)lack of will power

(10)when love is just time pass.

(11)Due to some social and family reason(responsibilties)

(12) Status gap

(13)some time after getting material success one don't care for his/her love

Hey friends I know there are llots of reasons for break-up in love,whatever may be the reason but it always give pain and a lesson to life.

Please feel free to comment and add more reasons which you observe and experienced.

 

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 09:31 | 20/Nov/2007 | 4 Comment(s)
hindi songs that inspired me

There are some songs of hindi movie and other sources which are inspiration for me ,i am unable to recall all at the same moment,but still trying to share some of them with you al people.


1.chhod de saari duniya kisi ke liye ye munasib nai aadmi ke liye,pyar se bi jaruri kayi kam hai pyar sab kuch nahi zindagi ke liye.


2.jeena yaha marna yaha iske siva jaan kaha...............


3.zindagi ki yehi reet hai aaj hai haar to kal jeet hai


4.rotey hue aatey hai sab hasta hua jo jayega wo muqaddar ka sikander janeman kehlayega


5.ae chalney wale chalta chal tu raah me kyu ghabraata hai jo dard ka lutaf uthata hai wohi to manzil pata hai(not a bollywod stuff)


6.ho sake to jeevan ban jao,na maut ka saaman bano(not  abollywood stuff)


7.kabi kisi ko mukammal jaha nahi milta kahi zameen to kahi aasmaan nahi milta.


8.badal jaye agar maali chaman hota nahi khali baharein fir bi aati hai baharein fir bi ayeghi.


9.zindagi ke safar me guzar jaate hai jo mukaam wo fir nai atey,dosto shak dosti ka dushman hai.......


10.ab kya sochein kya hona hai jo hoga acha hoga(ghazal)


 


................................................................to be continued

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 09:15 | 6/Nov/2007 | 5 Comment(s)
why the feelings changed

I know its a part of life that priorities got change from time to time.But why love also changed with time.Me and my cousins had a lots of affection for each other in our early chilhood.We were mad for each other and always in wait ,that when we meet .We were so innocent at that time ,were aware of worldy things.Now when we are grown up ,we find between us a career wise competition,lot of misunderstandings.Our priorities are chaned ,don't feel to meet and talk now.why all the feelings changed now??????????????

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 12:07 | 15/Oct/2007 | 2 Comment(s)
FEAR

FEAR-The most common emotion of every person who is existing is fear.first let's see the most im p.forms of fear then on emay get how it is affecting our lifes and leading u sto miseries.


1.fear of ignorance/negligence


2.fear of loosing our beloved ones.


3.fear of exams


4.fear of boss


5.fear of under estimation by others


6.fear of rejection


7.fear of being left alone/loneliness


8.fear of accident


9.fear from guardians


10.fear of future(most imp.)


11.fear of loosing power/high position


12.fear of loosing good image/reputation


13.fear of failure


12.fear of death


13 fear of cosmic powers


14fear of loosing job


There may be more other forms of fear which one feel in his/her life .BUT if we don't have these fear in our life we wil not be having any miseries and worries.pls tell me what kind of fear you feel and they way to ovecome this

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 11:13 | 11/Oct/2007 | 3 Comment(s)
dissatisfaction

In these days i am finding everywhere a kind of dissatisfaction.even after getting the dream full filled ,still one is disastisfied and looking for something else .so what is the ultimate happiness for a human,where is the end for satisfaction.after getting marry to his/her beloved one is loking other guys to seek happiness.even after getting all materialastic &luxuries thingsi.e.cars,jewellery,bunglows,foreign trips,why man is not happy.to whom man is still looking for?from where the ultimate satisfaction will come?should we desire for anything even when we know that ultimately all these worldly pleasure are temporary and will vanish one day?



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